We’ve all heard of the 80/20 rule, whether it be a relative, a Tyler Perry film, or some hurt broad ranting on twitter about niggas aint shit. For all of you who are unfamiliar with the 80/20 rule, it is the notion that in a relationship you will only receive 80% of what you want from your partner. The remaining 20% is all the qualities or desires you hoped to receive from your partner. What would you do if there was a way to attain both that 80 and 20 percent? This is usually how side chicks are born. Now I’m sure a lot of you are wondering why the man needs a side chick in the first place, and I’m here to tell you that he doesn’t. The side chick is not a necessity for every man walking this earth and some men are happy being with one woman. However, the majority of men will tell you they do or have kept a woman on the side before. The main chick is often the woman a man has been with or known for quite a while. He is comfortable with her and potentially could build a life with her. He usually lives with her and/or spends the majority of his time with her. He has raw sex with her and maybe doesn’t pull out because he’s not worried about if she becomes pregnant or not. He would be honored to have her as the mother of his children. She has met his family and is very relaxed around them. She is typically the one he is in love with and has future plans for such as marriage and children. However, the common mistake of the main chick is getting comfortable with her position and becoming lazy after a while. She may no longer do the things she once did to satisfy her man and may even start to slack on her appearance. After being in a relationship for a while the main chick usually reveals her true form. She becomes more selfish, easily angered, and bitchy. You don’t know who this person is because she hid these attributes from you during the beginning of the courtship in hopes of not scaring you off. While not totally intolerable, she does regularly test your patience. The stress of a committed relationship is sometimes too much a for man and he begins to long for a getaway. His getaway is often the side chick. The side chick can offer him just as many benefits as the main chick can. Sex, conversation, stimulation, she cooks, she cleans, you name it then side chick can provide it as well. Now, the only real difference between the side chick and the main chick is the level of affection the man has towards both women, and if the side chick KNOWS about the main chick. Some side chicks do not know they are side chicks simply because the man has keep the fact that he has another woman a secret. In her mind they are in a relationship because of how the man treats her and she feels for him. Some side chicks know exactly what position they play as “the other woman”, and they are fine with that. They don’t care about not being his main chick because half the time they aren’t looking for anything serious themselves. They are perfectly okay with just casually having sex and kicking it with a guy with no real emotional commitment. They have a good understanding of what they want from each other and are just letting the good times roll. There is a common misconception that a man could not love a woman if he cheats on her, this is false. Men love differently than women, men cheat for physical satisfaction most of the time. He still loves his woman he is just sexually attracted to another. Women are attracted to other men as well, however their emotional attachments to their mates usually keep them from acting on their impulses. I am in no way justifying the action of cheating, I am just expressing through a male point of view why is sometimes happens. I for one am I supporter of both polygamy and monogamy. Studies show that women who participate in threesomes with their male counterpart’s usually have less problems in their relationships because she allows the man to fulfill his “needs”. Not saying that everyone should be out having threesomes, but you have to realize that different folks prefer different things. Monogamy isn’t for everyone and neither is polygamy. I believe you should stick to whatever works for you and your partner and what you feel comfortable with. Well, that’s all I have for today people, y’all be cool until next time.
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Me
2/13/2014 11:40:48 am
If a man loves a woman he will not cheat. What cheating does to most women is unexplainable. If a man makes a woman feel that way he does not love her.
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Chill Fam
2/13/2014 11:54:49 am
sometimes things happen that you don't intend to. a woman will never understand a man, and a man will never understand a woman. love is love. if it is genuine it would take more than a few bumps to destroy that bond.
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Nik
8/14/2016 02:06:04 pm
Cheating is not a bump
Shantel
10/13/2015 03:40:47 am
I have this guy that i would do anything for,he is married but lives in different places with the wife. But i offer him everything,perfect sex,i clean for him and we do many things together but mostly behind the doors,the guy provides me with everything but the problem is,he doesn't want to share me with anyother man.What do you think i should do?
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Amber
12/22/2015 06:56:54 pm
How convenient for him. How sad and lonely for you. If a man is trying to run this kind of game on you and her, he will continue to because something is missing inside of him and he will never fill it. If you value yourself, or you'll eventually learn to, you will grow tired of this and move on. For your sake I hope you do sooner rather than later.
Eboni
7/15/2017 11:58:09 am
Do what you want to do because your a single woman. You aren't tied to anyone so you are free to date you just have to trust yourself more than a man. This has more to do with self-love, and you valuing who you are as a woman. We have lonely moments, but in that you have to fill your time with what you love. Dating a married man is so lonely, he will never have enough time for you, he will never take you out in public, you will never meet his family, and he can never just be with you. His wife will always come first. Those are some lonely nights. I thinking cutting it off is best. I don't think cheating is okay, it happens, but it's a choice. A lot of times people don't communicate that's the bigger issue. People fall out of love at times I think that's more of he reason men cheat outside of being womanizers, and just not respecting their commitment to a woman. They don't fully desire that person at times, but I think that should be a conversation baby this is what makes me happy, I love when you do this or that, sometimes I want to role play, we need to spice it up, and what's sad is people don't want to take the time to do that. The feeling of lust they get when cheating sometimes is what I think they desire more than really wanting to have sex with someone.
zuri
9/14/2016 04:12:27 pm
I agree with you.I know someone in a situation and he say he in love with his side chick and main girl. I feel like once you cheat on your main girl you not in love with her nomore.
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Elsa
10/16/2016 07:51:59 am
not true. cheating doesn't mean you've fallen out of love. it's possible to love 2 people at the same time...both for different reasons. I'm speaking from experience
Eboni
7/15/2017 12:02:21 pm
You can't love two people at once, you can't fall in love with someone your cheating on your partner with, you aren't being fully honest with either person. You can have love for both but not be in love with them. Like I just don't see that at all. Especially if your hiding one from the other, if it was an open relationship then possibly, but not when your hiding someone from someone else. A lot of men say that because they only have to momtenraily deal with the woman on the side so the attraction grows because she is his getaway from his relationship, but if he leaves his girlfriend for her some point down the line he'll be saying the same thing about her because she too will grow tired of certain things, get more comfortable around him, and the normal relationship issues will occur.
Gia
8/10/2017 01:30:41 pm
Maybe he loves both, why not
Mel
7/17/2017 10:35:05 am
This comment to me comes from inexperience. Having been both a main girl and a side girl I completely agree with this article. Men love differently from women. What you're talking about is assuming a guy has a strong level of empathy, one most women don't even have, to realize he's hurting someone he loves.
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i was in a long distance relationship but i feel like i was side chick because he never let me talk his family but he is always talking to me and he act like one of those fuck boys and he talks to different girls and will post there conversations so stupid of him he thinks that i didn't know that he is fuck so i just ignore him, he text me and say he wanna breakup but he have no reason to explain but i think the reason
Nene
12/15/2018 07:54:18 pm
That's such a dumb comment from someone who probably never dealt w a decent man in her life- if he "didn't realize he was hurting someone he loves" why the hell would he lie and sneak around? These are just selfish ass people who love what women do for their egos and their dicks and their personal amusement, they don't even know what love means. Love is about trust and respect, not I want to keep this person and the benefits they bring to my life under conditions they would not accept if I was up front and honest. That's not love- fuck his juvenile feelings love is how you treat people, not a feeling you carry around inside while deceiving them. Foh
Kiki
7/29/2019 12:45:21 pm
I'm a side chick, he pursued me for over a year and then offered me an employment opportunity to facilitate our meeting up. We worked well together, professionally. He then took an interest in my child and has helped me with him tremendously. Any financial bind I have he offers to fix without me asking.
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Nikki
7/29/2019 02:05:26 pm
Kiki,
Jan
5/21/2014 11:22:19 pm
Good article from a male POV. However, I do have one tiny bone to pick and that is the notion women love differently than men and cheat for different reasons.
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Amber
12/22/2015 07:07:58 pm
I couldn't agree more. I think men prefer to believe that women are not as sexually primal or carnivorous as they are because it is a stereotype they are taught internally by other men since birth. Fact is women can enjoy no strings attached hot and steamy sex too. We also have fantasies that are dirty and not romance novel kind of stuff.
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MizzRebel
9/21/2017 05:33:15 am
I would like to know myself.Why do men get upset if their side chick is having sex with other men? Is it a territorial thing, a sign he's developing feelings, or something else?
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latoya
7/23/2014 08:37:02 pm
in my situations i meet his mother sisters and brothers and recently found out he has been talking to a girl in london and in Pennsylvania neither have seen him but he paid for my ticket to and bought me all sorts of stuff but i am hurt he did tell me idk if i should leave him alone or stay...
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Allison
1/12/2015 09:24:14 am
I don't know if I am the side chick or main chick. I fit into both those categories. I asked my man if I was his main or side he said I was his main. When we first started talking we were both talking to different people at the same time he was honest. A girl did call and say she was his girlfriend, I told her we were just friends. I talked to the girl a few months later and she said they broke up. Now I am his girlfriend. He is in prison for a year. He calls me from prison. He doesn't want me visiting him there. I have mixed feelings at first I thought he was hiding something now I don't really care to see him. I am trying to trust him. He also said he wants us to have a baby. I need advice?!
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At the end of the day....the "MEN" who has their side chicks and main chicks, are the one's winning!!! Why I said this? Because both women can get PREGNANT! In my opinion, I think it's childish and full of Drama. Like who's really o.k. with having sex with someone else's man Or husband? ! That's just low. I don't care how much of a whore the side chick is, they have feelings just like the Main chick. And Feelings can develop. That's why it's NOT o.k. being a guys back up!!! But hey if it makes the side chicks "happy" then go for it.
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Andrea miles
6/19/2017 11:10:35 am
Just be. Carefully girl I have a boyfriend and he be talking to other hoes but I no about them he be jusylt playing them for money trust me u his main just watch out for these thots they out here
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Nene
12/15/2018 07:59:14 pm
Don't be an idiot- you're already clowning yourself if you have to ask "am I your side or your main" and "your only" not even an option- respect yourself! He don't want you visiting because his real gf is there on visit days- show your ass up unannounced and see does chaos not ensue
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tabitha
7/5/2015 03:44:06 pm
im the main i guess. i mean we live together with his family. we have a baby. but i never thought about it. but i dont want to sit there and ask him. this is really silly.
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Kitty
9/30/2015 05:45:25 pm
The Man I've been dealing with does have a Main chick & they have a couple kids together they live together & I knew about it from the jump. When he first approached me I was so against talking to him because I knew what it was but he would not give up on trying talk to me.. I was amused by the begging & asked like why are you unhappy? He said I'm happy just really bored. We became friends & I never had a man that I felt such a attraction to physically & emotionally. He always there when I need him. He freakin adores me & do such much for me. I forgot he even had a girlfriend for a moment because he's always available to me . I wonder whats his plans for the future to build a bond with someone else. I'm not dumb I already know the deal & more than likely if all this blow up in his face I'll be the one tossed to the side. I just wonder what goes on in a Mans head when he is in love but he's falling for another women also
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Leane
4/5/2016 07:42:05 am
Hi I have this guy that I love so patiently and I'll do anything just make him happy but the thing is he has a girlfriend and that's the only obstacle that I'm facing, I don't know what to do now. Please help me
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Leane, he has a girlfriend. Why would you be willing to share a piece-of-man when you can "patiently" wait to find your own that will treat you the way you deserve to be treated?! We, as women, have to stop being so darn desperate and so accepting of any little bit of scraps a sorry-ass "man" wants to throw our way...
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Cyndie
5/25/2016 01:06:11 am
I'm the side chick. He was honest from day one. So was I. I was in the process of getting out of a dead relationship. I liked him, we had fun. It gave me the courage to leave an unhappy, unfulfilling situation. We did a lot of things together, and then we fell in love. That scared me and I started to pull away because I wanted to see if I could be alone and be okay with it and at that point I no longer wanted to be a side chick. He literally went ballistic and made it clear he would not leave me alone because he loved me. Here we are 8 months later. He has tried everything to make me feel like anything but a side chick. I've met his family and friends and they know exactly who I am. I'm still not okay with being a side chick though. He's not married and has made it clear that he will not marry her. When I met him he was wearing a ring that she gave to him. She proposed to him at a family function the year before. When we met I asked him are you going to marry her, he said no and stopped wearing the ring soon after. And looks don't have a thing to do with it. I saw her and she's beautiful. So am I. I guess I was trying to figure out what our differences are. I'm more successful career wise but other than that we are similar in our lifestyles. So, here I am, wanting to not be a side chick, but hopelessly in love with the man and incapable of leaving him. Damn.
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Nikki
5/25/2016 08:19:09 am
Cyndie, I guess until you figure out that you deserve better only then will you stop settling for less... You should feel like you're better than sharing her "man" or anyone elses. As women, a lot of us have to work on our low self-esteem and desperation. It is OK to be alone. Why are you ladies SHARING another woman's man? It's trifling.
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January Jones
12/14/2016 04:29:23 pm
You and I are in the same position except my situation started different. Him and his long term girlfriend had broken up and we started dating exclusively for a few months, then they got back together and he ended things with me. Fast forward 2 mos later, they broke up again and he came back to me again. We were together for 4 mos and then she wanted him back. This time, he got back with her again but didn't want to let me go this time around.
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Jenny Ramirez
11/19/2017 03:22:08 am
Damn
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Cass
7/25/2016 10:00:00 pm
I'm afraid to be in a relationship these days Nevada of these men abs their side chicks. I want affection and dates and all that but I still cannot bring myself to be someone's side piece.
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lana
7/28/2016 01:38:20 pm
I am a side and a main right now. My situation is: I love my boyfriend (4years), he is a good father (we have a 2 year old), we get along great (think best friend) and he trusts me almost entirely. The first 3 years of our relationship were the hardest I had ever been through with someone. He beat me, cheated on me, lied to me daily, stole from me etc. To be honest, I've been through so much in life that these things didn't upset me like that would a normal person. I had just come out of prison when I met him and because of it, fell hard and fast. So with every bad thing he did I just absorbed it and grew this hate and lust for revenge in my heart. I ended up keeping him because he pays half the bills and takes care of our son while I'm at work... or... "OUT".
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Moe
7/6/2017 04:59:10 pm
You just a Bonafide HOE. Who's probably carrying that package...SMDH..You will get it back...Hoe
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Erica
5/26/2019 03:52:39 am
Why do you care so much about what other people do??? If it ain’t yo man wtf you worried about it for? Evidently if he don’t give a fuck about his own damn relationship why should she? She can’t fuck if he isn’t entertaining 🤷🏾♀️
Trina
9/14/2016 03:36:51 am
I'm new to dating again and "side chic" issues. I had been married 19 years and I left the marriage met a guy I knew he had lots of women I "just wanted to try him out". 10 months later I'm in love with him and he says he loves me but I keep thinking about when we met it was fun and sex then my divorce became final he stepped his game up taking me out and introduced me to his family and friends (he's only met my son and friends). Am I still one of his toys or am I the main chic now
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yummypearl
10/15/2016 06:31:38 pm
Ok I got a good one I'm a beautiful 23 year old woman 3 little ones. Married. Now I met this 33 year old and he has 3 kids but we text a lot. He is very sweet and for the first months never mentioned sex or anything on that subject. Let me go thru his phone once. Then as I got comfortable I gave in at his place, now I can't ask his dad about him bc his dad also likes me and gives me money when i want. But h has 2 baby mothers. One has his daughter another has his sons. His crib is two bedroom ones the main room anthother like a little girls room(round his daughters age). He claims it his female cousin that live there. He felt sorry for her and her child and let em move in. Never let's me go thru his phone after that one time he says that's privacy and has nothing to do with me. His vehicle plates say his daughters mother's name in front but he claims he pay her to use her vehicle while his is in the shop. Texts me and call all the time. Claims he loves me. And wants to b with me. Won't add me on fb says he dont put social media in his business. So I can't see anything he posts or nothing. Idk if I'm his side chick or whats going on he comes over and we sex but never hangout h claims its always basketball with his sons or he has the kids
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Moe
7/6/2017 04:57:49 pm
You're a Goofy Yummy Pearl and he's gonna keep treatin yo ass!!!!
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Thamie
11/15/2016 08:09:47 am
im 21 years and i have been dating my boyfriend for 8months now, he says he loves me and want to be with me still in future. when we met i had a boyfriend and he had a gf, recently he told me that he do not know what to do b/c he is not sure if we will last. i tried breaking up with him and he says he can not let me go. ... help pls
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Nikki
11/15/2016 02:35:50 pm
Hey Thamie, ultimately, you need to do what's best for you, girl...Either you can step away from the relationship, continue to date or not, but allowing him to figure out what he wants to do with himself as well as your relationship. Or continue in a relationship with a guy who's unsure about where the relationship is going, if anywhere at all...
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Nikki
11/15/2016 02:41:29 pm
And Thamie, I meant that you step away from the relationship and date OTHER PEOPLE or not...while allowing him to figure himself out...😉
Nikki
11/15/2016 02:39:42 pm
And Thamie, I meant that you step away from the relationship and date OTHER PEOPLE or not...while allowing him to figure himself out...
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vickyrozz
2/25/2017 10:11:33 am
, I love my bf and av given mostly everything just to make him happy,he knows my family as well as I know his family he's very proud of me....we are always together,he doesn't want to miss me a bit..but there is this girl Dat he was dating b4 me she was his side chick while he was dating his ex gf...when they broke up he came after me and he has promised and will do everything to be with me.but he still call this side chick she always call and text him...my bf promised not to leave her watever she want to do she always tell my bf....she is so jealous if my bf upload my pix on his profile she always brags abt me Dat my bf should leave me although he flirt with other female but I don't know why he's still with the gal,she even send my bf card and money....she is ok been a side chick and will wait till we breakup....if my bf love her he would have taken her serious since they were together b4 w met....and now Dat my bf and I is getting along she still disturb my bf.am just confuse don't know Wat to do
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Nope
3/9/2017 09:29:17 pm
I fell for an amazing truck driver. Said he was separated. He has a magnetism out of the world. I did some soul searching and prayed from the bottom of my heart to break free. I believe the bible when it says sin shall have no dominion. I want God more. I picked a fight with him. Like chess I set up my Victory and called a checkmate. I miss him to no end. He made me feel sexy. He made me feel desirable. To know him is to Love him. But I just Love God and myself more. I gave up this relationship as a sacrifice to God. I have to face the pain. I have to face the truth. I was his be he was never mine. However, the break up brought me to my knowledge knees but I am more effective as an I dependent woman with the loose ends so I can focus on my dream to help people with special needs. My dream is worth possibly loosing get the love of a life time. How bitter sweet. Victory wrapped in person all defeat. He like Judah pushed me into my destiny. I will rise to help those who can't help themselves. I will succeed and not as a side chick but as a world changer. Freedom and healing are my future now. I took back my dignity and demanded that I be respected. No holds bar I deserve better and we want better for our children.
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SMB
4/20/2017 04:41:50 pm
Wow! I am so moved by the way you expressed yourself that it has made me think about my current situation. I've been seeing someone for almost two years, I am very satisfied with this meeting up and then going on with our separate lives. I know I should end it, but I never really had the drive, or a reason and now I do because of your words. "I believe the bible when it says sin shall have no dominion. I want God more." I hope you are successful in life and achieve your dreams. Good things happen to good people, and inevitably it will happen to you too.
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Pearl
5/24/2019 05:50:46 pm
I love this
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SVW
5/27/2017 08:37:23 pm
I'm a side chick. We were up front with each other. I told him, I didn't want a relationship. He told me about the problems him and his wife were having. One thing lead to another. I know I should stop seeing him, but I can't. He can't stop seeing me either. I know this is going to end badly. But somehow, I don't even care.
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MOE
7/6/2017 04:56:29 pm
A DAMN SICKO..TALKING BOUT SOME LOVE SPELL SHIT..SMDH
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Monica92
7/10/2017 12:12:47 pm
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Jasmine
7/11/2017 09:37:53 pm
So can a man be in love with two women?
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jasmine
7/16/2017 09:51:00 am
So even if he told me that because of how he was brought up, he's staying with his baby mom because that's the right thing to do for his kids? He looked me dead in my eyes one dead, serious face and all and told me ,"I want to be with you. But I have to at least try for my kids."
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Nikki
7/16/2017 05:57:34 pm
Jasmine,
Marie
8/16/2017 09:33:03 am
Ladies please listen because I am going to be as honest as I can as I have been on both sides.
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Marie
8/16/2017 09:35:17 am
Cont'd..
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Mel
12/8/2018 05:07:26 am
I recently broke up with my boyfriend of three years. I broke it off with him after finding out that he’s been cheating on me for about a year with someone that he used to work with. The sad part is that before use even breaking up he had already made it official with her and updated his status on social media ( something he didn’t do with me because of him and I being from different cultures), needless to say we were still together when they became official. Now that they’re together he keeps looking for me (calling/texting) almost on a daily to say he loves and misses me.
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Nikki
12/8/2018 12:45:42 pm
Why haven't you blocked him or changed your number yet? All he's trying to do is have his cake and eat it too, IF you're foolish enough to believe him... Hope you're not. Don't allow anyone to use your feelings against you and that's all he's trying to do. Girl, please, I would've changed my number so fast!
Melicsa
8/31/2017 09:54:59 pm
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Aubrey
9/29/2017 04:58:27 pm
if anyone said to you i love you just say i agree after a week watch her step or move
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Allie
11/20/2017 04:46:42 pm
I am the wife and my husband is sleeping with a 21 yr old we have 5 kids together is there any advise I can get to help with stopping him he says he want to be with me and love me. But I am to the breaking point of not knowing how to fix things I want to be with him I love him but he says there are things that I am doing that he doesn't like and even when I stopped doing those things he is still not happy. Plz and advise I can get to help I will appreciate it
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Nikki
11/21/2017 12:02:19 pm
Hello Allie, while I was reading your comment I was shaking my head in disappointment because I don't understand why we as women are so tolerant of this kind of utter disrespect....HAVE YOU ASKED YOURSELF, 'If the shoe was on the other foot, would he be still here? Would he be so tolerant of me cheating with a another man especially a younger man?? Would he be sticking around trying to negotiate changes in his attitude that aggravates you in order for you to stop?? Or would he just be gone???'
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Anonymous
2/2/2018 08:44:21 pm
I am involved with a man that has a girlfriend. When we initially started, I was in a relationship also. He was my side dude at some point. We'd creep away and have amazing sex, slow and passionately everytime, lasting anywhere from 2-4 hours. We Caught feelings for eachother. He told me he was in love with me. I felt the same. We've been seeing eachother for 4 years now. We go out in public together, locially...He has spent the night with me. I've met all his friends. His friends have told me he has a whole album of my pics in his phone and that he addresses me as his girl, to them. He has been caught kissing my photos also. We take pics together and he has posted them up on social media. He's always video tapeing me. Telling me he wants me to untie my tubes and give him a baby (NOPE). He has spent time with my kids, holds my baby. I pick him up and drop him off sometimes, right in front of his door. We get tested frequently and are clean and have been having raw sex for the last 3 years. He has talked about having a relationship with me. What im trying to say is, every man is different. All side chicks are not hidden away, in fact, some get more exposure than the main chick. Im not condoning this behavior at all. But shit happens and this is my first time being a side chick...Ive always been the main chick and got cheated on, stepped on and treated like shit. Not every side chick wants a relationship or wants to take the main chicks place. Some Of us know that we will get treated the same and our position will become available. And let's be honest, who would want a relationship with a known cheater? I like my situation bcuz I have the opportunity to walk away. While the main chick buys him everything, takes care of him and provides shelter. I don't do anything for him, except all the freaky stuff she won't do. There's no robbery in fair exchange. When I get ready to try the relationship thing again. It won't be him, that's for sure.
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Margaret wyne
11/20/2018 06:34:27 pm
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LISA CAILLO
11/23/2018 06:09:56 pm
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Gracia
5/29/2020 06:38:45 pm
My husband and I separated in Sept but got back together on the 17th Sept until the first week Oct when he said he didn't love me anymore. I've found hotel receipts and indecent images and condom receipts for the 3rd time.I couldn't place it,at some point i thought i was letting sentiment cloud my sense of judgement.Thanks to ''hackingloop6@ g m ail . co m''whose hacking service gained me remote access to his phone activities and exposed even worst than i had anticipated. Could this be grounds for adulterous divorce? well at this point i think i it so inevitable.
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Nikki
5/31/2020 03:20:22 pm
Yes, it is grounds for an adulterous divorce. And a Scriptural divorce. Why would you want to try to hold on to someone like that? Time to use your head and not your treacherous heart.
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Matty Silver
5/28/2021 06:26:20 pm
I was in a really bad place emotionally because I had the suspicion my partner was cheating but I couldn’t confirm it. I reached out to a close friend and she introduced me to Hacksecrete@gmail.com . He explained how he would grant me access to my partner's phone without any traces. Of course I was skeptical at first but I had to erase the doubts so I went through with the process and he delivered giving me access to old texts and incoming texts on Whatsapp, Facebook, IG. He also got me into his email account and I was able to confirm my suspicion. I made the right call doing this because of the relief I felt afterwards.
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