What’s Really Hating?
Besides being a “real nigga” the most wrongfully used term is hands down hating, anything you dislike these days is put right into hating if you let the people tell it so I think it’s time somebody actually break down the two.
Hating-without absolutely NO reason claiming to dislike something/someone just be different or simply just jealous. People only like another person’s success when its something in it for them so therefore if you’re getting in a better position than them they dislike you instead of giving you props for being the one to get to that point. Hate can also come from people who don’t even know you, never really been in your presence or had a conversation with you just going off what they heard or see from facebook/twitter. Lets not forget the worst hate of all that comes between females, yall are just not meant to get along with each other because everything viewed as a competition from things as small as dressing to who weave look the best. There is never a real beef between females just a bunch of he said/she said like they can literally be enemies, become friends then fight and cant tell you one logically reason for anything that happened.
Everything is not hate though some people just dislike things with reason. Everything is not suppose to be agreed on so if a majority likes it and you’re that one who not feeling it you labeled a hater by society when you can straight up just not like it with a list full of facts why you don’t. The person labeled a hater most is the one who gives an honest opinion(like me myself), its so much I dislike and can go into detail why I aint digging it and will still get called a hater because I don’t have a biased opinion. There’s people out there who maybe really just don’t like you because of your personality that’s not hate at all it’s an opinion and you have to accept the fact everybody not gone like you. Every person is not the same don’t be afraid to form your opinion because it disagrees with the majority you not being true to yourself you playing follower the leader.
There it is in an brief write up what hating really is, I could’ve given way more details so I think im gone cook up a part 2 at another time. Are you being hated on or people just really don’t rock with you? Either way don’t matter long as you being you it don’t matter what people on the outside think. Let it be a reason for you to keep going harder to get where you want in life you the only person control that.